Life is natural. To be a real is to be natural like water, formless without the Self.
Naturally, you are awareness, the phenomenon of knowing, arising due to natural constituent cause and conditions. Naturally, you are not the Self in association with artificial ideas like race, gender, age, class, caste, nationality, religion, beliefs, eternal self, etc.
In your natural richness, you are fully aware, knowing correctly in the right context as it is and reflecting to become self-aware without the Self. You are real when fully aware and self-aware without the Self.
For you to be real, you need clear seamless awareness, the phenomenon of knowing correctly in the right context as it is. As clear seamless phenomenon of awareness, you can detach from known or unknown and reflect to become self-aware without the Self.
Self-aware without the Self, you can recognize through intuitive insight the truth of your natural richness in state of deep peace, security and fulfillment. Recognizing the truth of your nature in state of your natural richness you are enlightened spiritually.
You are not the Self that arises due to your association with the known and unknown. The Self in any form is self-ignorance because the Self is artificially conceived through association with known and unknown ideas or experiences.
Self-consciousness is nothing but stress created due to association with known and known. Self-consciousness is unhealthy just like unhealthy knee makes you conscious of it. The Self and the feeling of being inner self is unhealthy.
By being real through clear seamless awareness and self-awareness without the Self, you can know correctly in the right context and live an authentic intense life balanced life.
Genuine Life by Being Real as Awareness Without the Self
You are real when you are naturally aware and act not according to the artificially conceived Self. By being real, you live genuinely. Living genuinely means to know and live life as it is without illusions or hallucinations of the Self and the world.
Being Real You are Not Dual
Being real and fully aware without Self, you do not associate, you know correctly in the right context as it is and you become your actions without inner doer. There is no duality in you in form of inner doer, inner feeler, inner knower, inner experiencer, inner self etc.
Connected to Reality
By being real you are connected to reality. Being real through seamlessly clear awareness without Self, you know experiences as they are and your response to the known and unknown is elicited spontaneously according to reality of cause and conditions but not according to the Self.
For example, when you know you are thirsty you drink water as human and not as high caste person choosy about who offers you the water. When someone hits at you, you run away or defend yourself as natural human and not suffer in silence because you are a servant or woman, neither do you fight to death for silly reason of hurt Self-image.
Self-Knowledge
By recognizing the truth of your nature, you become naturally rich and you act through the richness of your nature in accordance with the reality.
Being real, you are self-aware without the Self or Self-consciousness, and you are aware of your strengths, weakness, what you value in what order of priority and your principles. By being real and self-aware, you know why you are the way you are and what potential you hold.
Neither Narcissism nor Self-consciousness
Being real and self-aware without the Self, you are at ease without any Self-consciousness or narcissism. You neither have inferiority complex nor superiority complex.
Your reality of natural richness is a deeper state of natural fulfilment and peace in which you feel secure in your source.
Being self-aware without the Self, you are naturally relaxed and stress free. You feel naturally confident, and you are naturally righteous due to freedom from subliminal stress of the Self and its negativities.
Living Skillfully by Being Real Through Awareness Without Self
Being real through natural awareness without Self, you are fluid, flexible, well adjusted, well adapted, resourceful through available situations and at advantage through available resources by knowing correctly in the right context. Naturally aware without the Self, you fit in harmoniously without losing yourself into reality.
As artificial Self, you are rigid, poorly adjusted, contriving, less resourceful, at conflict with reality and feel insecure due to association with known and unknown. As the Self, you may be difficult to fit in harmoniously with the reality.
As artificial “the Self”, you react according to the Self, whereas, by being real as natural awareness, your response is elicited according to the reality of cause and conditions.
Being real and naturally aware without the Self, you live with the great natural flow of life, you act promptly without striving through right cause and conditions. You leave the right effect and impact of your actions harmonious with the reality. Fully aware you can take, as classically said, “actionless action”.
Being real without Self, you acknowledge the reality of ephemeral life without imposing religious wishful beliefs of afterlife or next birth. Being real as natural awareness, the phenomenon of knowing due to ephemeral constituent cause and conditions, you live the one and only opportunity of life as best as you can because you do not live self-ignorantly as if you have afterlife, eternal life or next birth.
Being real as ephemeral awareness, the idea of supreme creator becomes irrelevant because you will no longer continue for getting judged after life.
By being real, you live here and now in the present as best as you can, creating a better future before you die, decay, disintegrate, disperse to get recycled.